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The Childless Wanderer

“I’m born to be wild, a free spirit, a wanderer if you will… with an obsession for freedom”

I’m a women in my 40’s who has never had children. This wasn’t as I planned but I’ve lived a full life and experienced everything with passion and my eyes wide open.

I’ve grown to understand this world doesn’t quite know which box to fit me into.

I’m here to tell you that I don’t need a box, I’m unique, just as I see all people around me.

I’m here to share my stories and experiences as I see them honestly and whimsically. To give you some insight into what my life is like and what I love and loath about the life I’m leading.

Bear with me during these tales as I share with you who I am and I find my voice to tell my stories.

I’m a New Zealand native but I’ve spent longer from my homelands that I’ve lived in it. I’ve travelled far and wide looking for answers and seeking truths.

“When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”

Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

I invite you into my world to hear my voice and what I love about it.

Lope Barts

The short and long of becoming childless by circumstance

I’ve shared my personal experience of becoming childless by circumstance.  Read this post to see where it all began for me. 

My Latest Tales & Stories

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I dreamt about you

I dreamt about you You never had a face You were part of my dream life You were part of my silent thoughts I had thought my life would have you in it But life had other plans I pictured timelines and parties With family to celebrate But I attended the parties and...

Beep… Beep… Beep… Beep…

Beep… Beep… Beep… Beep… Uncomfortable seat Whiteness all around me Beep… Beep… Beep… Beep… Lube on my belly Gown ties against my back Black and white shadows moving on the screen Beep… Beep… Beep… Beep… Sterile surroundings Life in a small screen Moving and drifting...

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